High-Conflict Divorce

It was all for the best – or so you believed.

You believed that ending your marriage was the best decision for your family.

Whether a difficult choice or easy decision, you imagined that divorce though closing one door would open others. Specifically, doors that would allow you, finally, to parent in alignment with your values, pursue the career you truly desire, and be the person you know you were meant to become.

You expected that it would be hard-won, but ultimately, you envisioned agency in your life.

Only now, you’re feeling anything but.

Your neighbors have their opinions.

The family law court has mandates.

And in some inscrutable way, it feels like your ex has more control over your life than ever.

Even worse, it has become increasingly difficult to see how any of this will change – even after the settlement conference.

Divorce is hard. High-conflict divorce is something else entirely.

The involvement of attorneys, forensic accountants, and the family law system presents an array of new tools for high-conflict personalities to wield.

It’s common for the dynamic in high-conflict divorce to transcend the end of the legal process. Co-parenting, financial transactions, shared friends, and acquaintances – these are not uncommon avenues for continued contention.

You might feel discouraged – that even after the divorce ends, your ex will continue to wield control over your life.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

Remember, you may have fantastic coping skills, but you have never gone through this process before, with this person, in this court system.

High-conflict divorces will ALWAYS test even the best coping skills.

That’s where I come in. I can help you navigate even the most challenging or traumatic situations.

Together, we’ll focus on your strengths on the premise that you’ve already succeeded. We’ll develop a plan to help you regain your sense of control and restore your quality of life.

You were right. There really are better – and BEST – days ahead.

Reach out to me today at (415) 858-9454, so we can begin your journey.

Change isn’t easy, but you are stronger than you know.

You can get through this time in your life – and emerge in a better, stronger place on the other side.